Children are our mirror

25 June 2026

A conversation with Artūras Pangonis about children's behavior, parents' internal states, and a more conscious relationship in the family.

Children are our mirror

Artūras Pangonis suggests looking at children's behavior as an opportunity for parents to better see their own internal states, attachments, and fears. According to him, rules and boundaries within the family are necessary, but they are not enough on their own. The quality of the relationship changes when adults are able to honestly evaluate their reactions, take responsibility, and grow their self-awareness. The article also discusses why it is worth looking for the causes of children's difficulties within the context of the entire family dynamic, rather than just in the child's behavior. Source: Gyventi sveikiau (Living Healthier)